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LONELINESS

Yes, loneliness is good too. 

-but how? 

Let's find it's answer,in this complete article. 

If we are surrounded with good ones, it is too much beneficial for us because we get too much knowledge from them. 

I too have my best friend (my own personal library). 

There are different types of persons, some have different skills, abilities, capabilities, behaviour, nature, due to this variations in our surrounding, sometimes we can't find persons like us.

But this is not any point of disappointment because our own company is the best. 

If we are surrounded with others, we talk with them, gossiping with them, joking with them, sharing knowledge with them. 
And sharing knowledge with others, talking with others increases our knowledge. 

I too when I am with my library (best friend ) I get too much knowledge from him and also shares knowledge with him. 

But problem with them who are alone, just think, when you are alone, don't distract your mind on nonsense things and don't start overthinking on things that are not in your control. 
DON'T LET LONELINESS BE YOUR WEAKNESS, MAKE IT YOUR STRENGTH. 

Just think when you are alone, what you can do? 

Answer yourself. 

When you are alone, you are able to concentrate on your skills, passion, study, and it is the good time to focus on your work. 

It is incorrect that loneliness is weakness of anyone, make it your own strength.  
It's all depends on your determination that how you utilize your loneliness. 

Just one important thing is that, we can't make our mind distract on stupid things and on overthinking

In loneliness everyone starts Overthinking, and start doing some nonsense things. 
Just by it everyone thinks that loneliness is bad. 
But it is incorrect to say loneliness is bad, loneliness helps to focus on your goals, gives time to improve your skills, gives time to work on your passion and gives time to focus and achieve your goals. 

The persons, which are surrounded with others, also needs a short break to make their mind fresh, they also needs to spend some time alone, just to know themselves. 
Spend some time with yourself to know yourself, talk with yourself, try to rectify yourself, giving time to ourself is also necessary. 

If you are surrounded with many, busy in your lifestyle, busy in you work. 
Then, when you give time to yourself?  giving time to yourself is necessary to know yourself. 
Talk with yourself. 

But, when you are alone and talking with yourself, giving time to yourself, don't Overthink on the things that are not in your control.
You are giving this time to yourself to improve yourself, know youreslf. So, don't waste your precious time on Overthinking and on nonsense/stupid things. 


If you are alone
enjoy alone, 
go outside from your home, 
walk on parks, 
play with animals, 
spend time with nature,  
Then you feel, too much better on yourself. 

When you spend time alone, outside of your home at a beautiful environment, your thinking will be positive in good environment, your thinking capacity will increase. 
Good environment gives you a very beautiful and great positive thoughts. 

This is not mandatory that you hangout only with your friends, you can also go outside alone. 
If you are with your friends, they changes  worse places to good ones. 
But when you are alone, this is mandatory that you are in a place with a good environment because only good environment can makes your mind relax and free. 
If you are alone and in place with bad environment, it will gives you negative thoughts only. 
So, you needs to be assure that where you are going alone, this place should be good environment. 

If you have good friends, it is good, but if you have not, can't find anyone, enjoy with yourself, enjoy your own company. Give time to yourself, to your work, to develop skills and do many more things that satisfy you. 

This article can't gives message that company of friends are not good. This is just to make people known that how they utilize their loneliness. 

                                       -BY RAJAT DEKATE

 

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