Secrets are necassary

Today everyone have open minded thoughts. And we always becomes comfortable in making friends but easily we can't know who will become our friend and who will be foe.
In the beginning everyone behaves nicely; but the reality comes later.
When they behaves nicely in beginning, to make a good friendship, we always try to ask about ourself but too much is not good.
In the beginning some people tries to be an open book. Because they like to be the open book without any hidden stories.

We all know that Ravana was killed when Vibhishana asked Sri Rama to attack Ravana's navel. If Vibhishana had not told this to Shri Ram, it would have been a bit more difficult to kill Ravana.
In this article, we will know to what extent we should present ourselves in front of people and to what extent we should keep ourselves hidden from people.

It is also not right to keep yourself completely hidden from people and it is also not right to be open to the extent.

Now we have to know how to present our things to the people, how to keep some things hidden from people.

Your enemy's can use your words against you that you told them earlier.
So, just because of a nice behaviour in a very short period of time, don't be opend up.

And the next important thing is.
If you want to get people's attention then it would be absolutely wrong to live like an open book.
Because
Nothing will be left to read in an open book.
But a mysterious or marvellous book always tries to attract people.
And once a book got read by a reader, he/she keep it on a corner in a shell. So, if you wanted to attract the attention of others, don't be open up completely.

Now it comes to how many things should we tell people and how much should we hide?

Tell people only as many things as is enough for people to know you not to understand you.

लोगों को उतनी ही बातें बताएं जितनी कि लोग आपको जानने के लिए पर्याप्त हों न कि आपको समझने के लिए।

-Rajat Dekate

There, Vibhishana had told the secret of his brother for the truth, but today that person has more enemies who follow the path of truth.

If you are following the path of truth, then you should not tell such secrets at all, which can get you in trouble in future.

It is wrong to lie, but it is not wrong to hide the truth. If we are hiding the truth to protect ourselves then there is nothing wrong in that.

Present yourself in front of people only so that people can get general knowledge about you Don't present yourself too much so that people can take advantage of you by your secrets.

It is not necessary that someone knows everything about you. Some things that are there should be kept secret.

Your important things should only be known to your close ones, but you should always try to avoid them too because your friends also havr friends and some can change after their work got completed and be your enemy.
So be careful always.

Ravana is a very good example of this for us.

There are a lot of people who pretend to be your friend; but intentionally they wanted to harm you by knowing your secrets.
Humanity is dependent on beliefs but it is not always true that we believe on anyone everytime.

Always remember:-
IF YOU CAN'T KEEP YOUR THINGS SECRET, THEN HOW YOU EXPECT FROM OTHERS THAT THEY KEEP IT SECRET.

यदि आप अपनी बातों को गुप्त नहीं रख सकते, तो आप दूसरों से यह अपेक्षा कैसे कर सकते हैं कि वे इसे गुप्त रखें।

Once a thing is spoken, it is no longer a secret.

-Rajat Dekate